Imagine finding out as a thirty something adult that your parent was gay and your whole world comes crashing down. That’s what happened to my guest “Rhoda” and she tells her story of growing up in a strict Mormon household where she got all her validation from living the gospel and making the right choices to try and please her parents. Then come to find out one of them had a serious secret that was never revealed until recently. The church and it’s teachings are causing significant harm when they teach people that they cannot accept their sexuality and they need to just pray it away, choose a heterosexual relationship, bring children into the world etc and live the gospel so that you can obtain salvation. But all of that is a lie where does that leave you?